Let’s get this out of the way first. Hate mail goes to comments@todayspetpeeve.com … when I hurt your delicate sensitivities. Okay, let’s dive in.
First off, I don’t have a problem with someone being gay. If you can find someone in this fucked up world who will put up with your stupid ass and still love you … then go for it … man or woman. And … I don’t think you can fake being gay. I don’t look at guys and feel the same way I feel when I look at women. If I’m being totally honest though … I think you’re cheating the system a little bit if you’re gay. Only because men and women’s brains are SO different in the way they think that by being with the same sex you don’t have to deal with someone who makes decisions that make no fucking sense to you … but you love them anyway.
So, there are women who love men … men who love men … and women who love women. But in these equations … there are men and there are women. There is NO third gender. If you have a tab … you are a man. If you have a slot … you are a woman. What you do with those parts can classify you into a group … but there are no other parts that create another gender!
Pangender. What the fuck is that!? It’s defined as being more than one gender. Okay … that’s what a hermaphrodite is. You’re born with both parts … tab and slot. This is the only person who gets to choose what “they identify as” when asked. But that’s not what pangender means in this world that I’ve found myself living in. Pangender means they consider themselves a member of all genders. Again … if you’ve got both parts then this describes you. If you don’t …
… there are 2 genders: male and female.
Based upon my most current searching there are 81 genders. Come on Facebook! You only list 56 (listed below):
- Agender
- Androgyne
- Androgynous
- Bigender
- Cis
- Cisgender
- Cis Female
- Cis Male
- Cis Man
- Cis Woman
- Cisgender Female
- Cisgender Male
- Cisgender Man
- Cisgender Woman
- Female to Male
- FTM
- Gender Fluid
- Gender Nonconforming
- Gender Questioning
- Gender Variant
- Genderqueer
- Intersex
- Male to Female
- MTF
- Neither
- Neutrois
- Non-binary
- Other
- Pangender
- Trans
- Trans*
- Trans Female
- Trans* Female
- Trans Male
- Trans* Male
- Trans Man
- Trans* Man
- Trans Person
- Trans* Person
- Trans Woman
- Trans* Woman
- Transfeminine
- Transgender
- Transgender Female
- Transgender Male
- Transgender Man
- Transgender Person
- Transgender Woman
- Transmasculine
- Transsexual
- Transsexual Female
- Transsexual Male
- Transsexual Man
- Transsexual Person
- Transsexual Woman
- Two-Spirit
Are you deciding that 25 of them are just making some shit up!? Exactly! This just illustrates my point. Everyday someone is adding new “genders” because the current ones don’t fit them. Seriously!? You don’t fit within one of the 81 groups!? Get the fuck out of here! Everyone these days has to be so unique and different! Get over yourself!
Identifying as Neither!? Get the fuck out of here! Unless you’re a eunuch, you’re falling into one of the two categories: male or female.
Identifying as Two-Spirit!? Get the fuck out of here! Wikipedia defines it as:
The term two-spirit was created in 1990 at the Indigenous lesbian and gay international gathering in Winnipeg, and specifically chosen to distinguish and distance Native American/First Nations people from non-Native peoples.
So now the Indians … (sorry!) … Native Americans … (Fuck!) … indigenous people (being politically correct is so difficult these days) can’t just be gay or lesbian … they have to have their own names for it!? This shit is impossible to keep up with … and ridiculous!
Look! You can “feel” however you want. You can feel like a man even though you have a vagina. Dress in combat boots, buzz your hair and roll a pack of cigarettes in your white T-shirt but let’s all agree that you are still … a woman. On the flip side … you can feel like a woman and wear a garter belt and bra, put on makeup and wear a turtle neck to try to hide your Adam’s Apple but if you have a penis, let’s all agree that you are still … a man. If you want to feel a certain way … knock yourself out … but let’s cut the shit about how you are neither a male or female. Everybody falls into one of those 2 genders based upon what parts you’re sporting. I’ll be waiting for the emails.
TodaysPetPeeve 
I totally agree with you. This bullshit has to end!!! I’d call them (Binary bullshitters), “It”, but I love Stephen King way too much to fuck up the book/movie and even Pennywise the clown from any of this bullshit confusion.
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100% true,let’s call a spade a shit shovel! Everyone is so scared of telling the truth these days in fear of upsetting some loonie
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Everyone is so scared of how idiotic you are and are in fear of upsetting you loonie.
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This author is awesome!!! My 3 year old daughter just passed away at daycare I can’t even get into the absolute disgust I have around my baby girl not being protected and the fact that our criminal justice system is so fucked up that people who lie and take back true statements are allowed to help a daycare get away with such gross incompetence they also allow the person responsible to get away with manslaughter!!!! My oldest daughter was so distraught after her sister passing I took her to Children’s Hospital in Seattle for help. I could not believe what I was hearing!!! Not only do 13 year olds have the right to refuse admission (which was a blessing in the end) I was told to leave the room and out of the 10 hours we were there I was told in front of my daughter that I needed to respect her call her by her new made up name and not refer to her as a female or with female pronouns. They even changed her name on her medical records to the name of her choice when I explained this was something she got off the internet and has nothing to do with her actual problems they refused to listen and truly looked at me like I was a monster even the nurses who were not in the room. This is what their concern was after her little sister had tragically died 10 days ago!
The next day CPS showed up at my house un-announced went through my drawers etc…. I was told she could not have any contact with her father’s side of the family even during the funeral. I had to sign a paper that I would be charged with neglect if she even called her cousin. There was a police investigation on her father and I am randomly drug tested and she will not tell me why. Everything was dropped quickly but because it is mandatory CPS is called during a police investigation of a child they have managed to require me to follow what ever they say even though my youngest daughter has nothing to do with why they contact me. CPS is using my daughters police investigation as a way to keep tabs on my older daughter. I was forced to put her in therapy which I did not know was strictly non gender therapy at the time. CPS calls to see if I have allowed my daughter to go to gay and lesbian support groups. My daughter started asking me to buy all boy clothes and take her for hormone therapy something she has never asked before. I could not believe when I read the therapist had influenced this and because she is on the autism spectrum they especially help with terms and transition. There is so so much more to all of this and it has not even been 3 months since my Angel passed! I have not even been able to truly grieve her because I am fighting to save my living daughter who is a victim of being brainwashed and encouraged to separate from her family. She says she finally has people who love and support her and that she wasn’t ever emotionally loved by me. The best part is I’m the one person who has unconditionally loved her and taught her tolerance and to love people without judgment. She used to say I’m so glad I have you to teach me what’s right.
Her latest defense on the made up bullshit non- gender which has no scientific basis only science disputing it, is that she is Native American oh I’m sorry apparently that’s racist now, her endogenous culture created the term two spirit!!! So thank you for the information in this article.
This is not just annoying now it is truly terrifying because it is being targeted within our education and medical system and we are not even allowed to raise our children with our morals we are told by professionals that we are abusive for not following this new fantasy land ideology which is thank you bullshit!!!!!
By the way the doctor who came up with this whole idea has been discredited and caught sexually exploiting and abusing his patients, his only interest in creating this new medical theme was to become famous, his own words!
I am a true believer in democracy however democracy has no limits on how far they have let people take advantage, take over and turn tolerance and kindness into the very thing we are based on freedom of speech, living and working with each other not letting the most left of the left take over and reinvent our society. I am voting republican from now on just in hopes that our nation can have some hope of being saved. At the very least our children.
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Angela,
Please accept my sincerest condolences for the passing of your child. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. That in itself is utterly devastating but then to now be subjected to this bullshit with your older daughter … is inconceivable! Unfortunately, I’m not shocked. There are truly some morally bankrupt people in the world and somehow they have made it into the positions of power while we were all just living our lives. It’s scary as fuck where we’ve gotten … and how fast it’s taken hold! They are pushing this bullshit on our children … because they are easily influenced. Thank you for taking the time to comment and sharing how this non-binary bullshit has affected your life. Keep fighting for what you know is right and I hope everything works out for you the way you envision it.
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Wow! Exactly how I feel! You nailed it! (sorry if that metaphor is toooo masculine!)
I’m so sick and tired of this twisted gender shit! If you don’t know what you are, pull your pants down and look! Thanks for your rant… Love it!
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Sex, gender, and gender expression are all 3 different things. I don’t see anything in this little rant that shows any biographical, psychological, or even social proof that there are only 2 genders. This is a fully biased look on transgender and transsexual folk from people who just can’t be bothered to get out of their own conservative shells and do their research. “Pulling down your pants and checking” doesn’t identify your gender, it identifies your sex, what you were born with. People can choose to change that, just as they can choose to change their gender and gender identity. So-called LGBTQ+ allies who say this, are not LGBTQ+ allies.
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“Boys have penises. Girls have vaginas.”
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You don’t need social proof to see there are only 2 genders. It’s called biology, haven’t you heard of something called facts!?
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Penis and vagina are the only 2 parts
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Thank you so much for not being a brain-dead dipshit like all the other people here. I know the other comments are a bunch of dumb fucks who don’t understand that YOU get to choose what you want to be even if you were born with the other part. I’m glad that there are people who actually know what the fuck they’re saying.
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Cayden … back again today, huh!? This post and all the … let’s see … fucking stupid, idiotic, brain dead people (as you put it) who commented really have you riled up! Are you going to respond to EVERYBODY’S comments … and tell them all how stupid they are? I’m just curious? I’m fine with that because I’m NOT into censoring people but don’t you think you’re going to look ridiculous trolling every comment and calling people sophomoric names? What are you, twelve? Put together an intelligent thought and express it. I guess I’ll see you here again tomorrow because you haven’t attacked every person who commented … but do me a favor and grab a thesaurus tonight and try to come up with new insults to call all us close-minded, red-neck, cousin-fucking dumb shits so you keep it interesting for everyone.
Scott
(P.S. You can’t use those derogatory terms … I came up with those, get your own)
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Thank god!! I’m so sick of all this mess the world is truly turned upside down and these confused af people will inherit the world,so sad ,so sad .
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Thanks Theresa!
I’m trying to keep up … well, not really….with all these crazies and there multiple “genders.”
This world has traded common sense for “wokeness,” Social Justice Wariors, and cancel culture!
Don’t even get me started on the gay crosswalks…..!
Vinnie
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We should all say… Congratulations 🍾🎊
Society we are officially out of society and personal problems! It’s like we’re debt free and bored out of our crazy minds and so we need to continue stirring up more shit out!
I 1000% agreed with you! I believe this has to do more with attention seekers issues than what they claimed to be.
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Yes, it does seem to be about people needing attention. Glad you liked the post! Thanks for commenting.
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You need mental attention because of how fucking stupid you are.
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Couldn’t agree more! The question is: what is the endgame of the non-binary agenda?
Towards an answer: https://humanumreview.com/articles/the-trans-industrial-complex
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Beats the shit out of me Tom! None of it makes any sense. It’s the result of a generation of parents that coddled their kids too much.
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Beats the shit out of me Scott! None of your stupid ass self makes any sense. It’s the result of people who are so brain dead they can’t understand a third gender.
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Someone on my Facebook feed dyed his friend’s hair and beard(!) Ronald McDonald Red and added (they/them please) on the caption. When you have a thick bushy beard how are you anything other than a man?
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That’s exactly right Sammy, they are a MAN. They are just someone looking for attention … hence the bright red beard.
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I’m confused because this post reads like it was written by a deranged toddler that doesn’t speak English as it’s first language.
90% of those “other genders”, that you listed, were not even other genders, or they were repeats (e.g. cis male and cisgender male).
Most egregiously, or stupidly, is your use of hermaphrodite to refer to humans, and your mistake of intersex as a gender. A hermaphrodite is an organism that has functioning sex organs from both genders OR can transition between genders. An intersex organism is one in which it’s genitalia are ambiguous and/or both sex’s genitalia and sex organs where one or both sets are underdeveloped. There are no known cases of hermaphroditism in humans, as no human has ever had two functioning sets of opposing sex organs.
To put it a little more clearly, hermaphroditism is a normal state in species, where as intersexed organisms are generally the result of genetic aberration.
I think the extent of your research was consulting the shit you pulled out of your ass.
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Adelaide,
Thank you so much for reading and commenting on my post! It appears that you were truly moved by it! Although, yes there are no actual cases of hermaphroditism in the human species, I was referring to pseudohermaphroditism … but didn’t want to get all tangled up in the scientific terms and take the post off topic … since I was writing in layman’s terms and not a scientific journal. Historically, the term hermaphrodite has been used to describe ambiguous genitalia which is what I was trying to convey by using the word AND 99% of the population would understand it that way. As to the 90% of those “other genders” that I listed, I pulled those right off of Facebook’s website to show how ridiculous the whole thing is and if they have repeats listed … feel free to contact Mark Zuckerberg and let him know. Although I can appreciate your scholarly comments regarding hermaphroditism … or intersex which is what the term has evolved into so not to be so STIGMATIZING (ugh!) … you seem to have focused in on the minutiae and missed the overall gist of my post. I clearly have struck a nerve … either because you are intersex … or an elitist who has an overwhelming need to correct people on obscure topics to make yourself feel superior. I’m glad you took the time to comment and educate everyone on the TRUE nature of hermaphroditism. We are all NOW educated. Hopefully, I can count on you to continue reading my blog and if you do … I promise to continue to pull shit out of my ass to write about!
Scott
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Really. Wow. Sad. You CLEARLY can see the point being made. Two sexes – male / female. The essential ingredients to humankind for a long time. And you instead insult. Clever clever you.
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Ok,wow…. not sure how I ended up here, (kinda like watching youtube, starting out watching kittens, ending up watching pimples being popped) but really enjoyed your comment, paragragh, blog, etc., even this has many names 🤯. Firstly, I totally agree!! You are either tabbed or tabless (btw, love this analogy). You can shave your adams apple, have said tab cut off 😫(gotta hurt), take pills to grow boobs, but in my mind you are still a dude. You have MALE chromosomes in your dna…same goes for females…you can strap on a tab, have one created, cut off your boobs etc.,but again your chromosomes are still FEMALE. Now, onto hermaphroditism. I worked for ab OB/GYN for 16 years and we had one case where the infant was born with a tab, but also had ovaries. It was left up to the mother to decide what to do, and as the “tab“ was on the outside and the ovaries were on the inside she opted to have the ovaries removed. Now once they’re born and they go on in life you lose track of them and I have no idea what happened to this child whether they ended up being a male but associating as a female or vice versa, or “gasp” just went through life as if nothing happened. My only problem I have is when a male decides they want to be female and then competes as a female in sports. That is where it gets sticky for me because males and females are created differently, our muscle groups are created differently, males are going to be stronger in some muscle groups than women. Women are going to have sometimes more agility and flexibility and things than a male will. And don’t get me started on the whole bathroom issue. As a woman if I were to go into a bathroom and a male pulls out a “tab” it’s going to shock me. I don’t care what you identify as tabs are dudes tabless are dudettes. In my eyes that’s why they created family bathrooms. Problem solved go into a bathroom all by yourself and there won’t be an issue ever. Now as I crawl off my soapbox I want to thank you for your article because I wholeheartedly agree with you and I don’t care who doesn’t agree with me. This is my personal opinion, nothing anyone says is going to change it so please don’t try. So with that being said please continue to pull this shit out of your ass because it’s interesting😂😂.
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Thank you for your comments! It’s nice to know there are still people like yourself, who agree with this point of view … a point of view which is sadly falling out of fashion. I’m glad you went down the wormhole and ended up on my blog and shared your thoughts!
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I don’t understand why everyone has to so damned sensitive all the time… people are always looking for a reason to be butthurt about anything and everything. Then when you offend them they try to cancel you and act as if you are the devil… Get over yourselves and grow a damned spine and some thicker skin while you’re at it. People need to unite and come together… we have more in common than we do differences. When we come together and look at our similarities, our differences will seem inconsequential…. In the meantime grow up and stop CRYING about EVERYTHING you overindulged milksops!!!
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Yes, everybody is looking to be offended! It’s ridiculous. I’m not sure if people are still capable of seeing similarities in other people. It seems that this whole “woke” generation wasn’t taught that someone can have a difference of opinion and it’s okay … you don’t have to cancel them. It’s very much “You are either with me, or my enemy!” If you have time, read my post on Cancel Culture Bullshit. I think you might enjoy it! Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts!
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Yep. Nonbinary is total crap. Based on my observations of it beginning in kids’ teenage years, I think it’s just another symptom of horribly delayed growing up, maturing, and facing the world. There is massive growing number of kids who are gender “dysmorphic” (boys who decide they are girls, girls who decide they are boys, and then the “nonbinary” who don’t want to be either. It’s a BS smokescreen. It avoids the awkward unpleasantness of accepting what you are and learning to get along with the opposite sex. It is delayed maturity. It’s another symptom of all the 20-somethings (and 30-somethings… and FORTY somethings) who live home with mom and dad and who’s idea of a “job” or a “business” is making $28 a month selling junk on Etsy.
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Agreed. It’s a symptom of parents letting their kids focus more on their “feelings” … than their responsibilities. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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I’m hissing air I’m laughing so hard. Agreed!!
What makes humans? Girl parts and boy parts.
Kind of tired of being bullied into agreeing with everything the LGBT – qrstuvwxyz says.
Done.
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If you could actually fathom there being more than two genders in your tiny shitbox of a brain you would have to be sent to a psychiatric hospital becuase you lost your ever loving mind due to being exposed to information that is WAY out of your learning level.
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Wow Cayden! This really “triggered” you. You replied to three people’s comments one right after the other. I don’t think anyone who won’t accept there being more than 2 genders have a … how did you eloquently put it … tiny shitbox of a brain. I think they are just living in the real world and don’t subscribe to this new way of thinking that everybody can just make up whatever the fuck they want to be and everyone else has to accept it. Thanks for reading my post and hopefully you can forgive those of us who aren’t at your learning level.
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All this non-binary shit is pathetic. I identify as an oil rig, please be careful with my feelings or I’ll spill a thousand barrels of oil onto your face.
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All this stupidity shit is pathetic. “I’m a idiot who can’t understand that there are more than two genders”
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WORD!!!! 100%
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I think these so called non binary people are mentally ill and need to seek help.What the fuck is wrong with these people, get a fucking life
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I’m glad you enjoyed my post. The truth of it is that people don’t have to worry about REAL things anymore like finding food or shelter or any of the necessities to survive … so they are free to focus on these crazy things. If they had to worry about securing their next meal I don’t think we would be having these conversations. Have you ever seen a homeless person worrying about what pronoun they want to be addressed as? Thanks for commenting!
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You’re mentally ill for not being able to understand a basic thing such as more than two genders.
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Thank you. Thats exactly what my thoughts were. So sick and tired of these bullshit gender shit. End of the day there is only 2 genders .
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So sick and tired of dipshits that can’t understand that people don’t want to have a gender. End of the day you’re a fucking idiot.
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Very refreshing and it is part of the snowflake generation where everyone wins and everyone is unique FFS.
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Agreed Cameron! Thank you for your comment!
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Attention seekers is all this is. Everyone is seeing that this is becoming more a septa le so they want to have their fifteen mins of recognition so they make up some stupid gender to identify with so that others can say oh I identify with that too. Then the shit storm starts. You are either male with a penis or female with a vagina you aren’t anything else because there are no other sex organs. Stupid bullshit this is I’m so tired of it and glad I didn’t have kids that would start this nonsense or I would have put them in the psych ward.
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Yes, everyone these days needs to feel special. I guess it’s a double-edged sword. It’s great we’ve come so far that most people don’t have any real struggles (food, clothing, shelter) … so they start making shit up to appear that they DO have struggles. If your big concern in life is making sure people use the correct pronoun when they address you, I’d say you’ve got it pretty good … so shut the fuck up and count your blessings. Thanks for reading and sharing your comment Ally!
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While I disagree with the concept of “gender (or agender) identity”, your argument is from a place of resentment with no attempt at empathy or understanding. I’ve done my best observe this phenomenon very neutrally for a while. I’ve tried to gain a better understanding of it. I’ve listened without judgement to those to were willing to explain it to me as best they could. Based on this approach I’ve formed my own opinion and theory based on some general observation and deduction.
Someone in the comments mentioned a certain age group where these sentiments are most prevalent (but not necessarily exclusive). I experienced a similar observation. Most of the people (60 some-odd out of 87) I’ve spoken to were raised in that group (which grew up in the digital/online age) and were more likely to have to created “identities” via profiles and avatars online at a young age which they felt represent them personally. There was typically no real motivation for them to not except the presented identities of others at face value. It was also commonly the most common type of “socializing” that they participated in as opposed to real world socializing and observation.
They were as invested in traditional gender role behavioral normative if not more so than previous generations despite any argument to the contrary. To that effect they tend to define themselves rather categorically based on those established normative (which they typically claim to be against).
Examples of generalized rationalizations I’ve heard:
A) They feel that they align more with traditional female normative behavior so the conclude that they have a female personality and their pronouns are “she/her”.
B) They feel that they align more with traditional male normative behavior so they have a male personality and their pronouns are “he/him”.
C) They don’t feel that they align with either traditional gender normative role so they are neutral to genderization and conclude the only suitable pronouns for them are “they/them”.
D) Some days they align with one normative over the other so conclude they they are “gender fluid”.
E) There is also a subset that have had previous traumas and have adopted a gender role and identity as an means of coping with said trauma. This is a different topic that I won’t address beyond stating it has been observed in a subset.
The irony of their mentality being that in their attempt to not conform to establish gender normative, they purposely feed into them as a form of justifying their self expression. A true rejection of gender normative would be (imho) rejecting the concept that being sensitive, nurturing, liking pink/blue, being submissive/dominant or aligning neutrally to these behavioral patterns has anything to do with anyone being male or female. That’s just a person’s personality.
I think the general population would be more accepting if they asserted that x behavior is not exclusive to m/f instead of asserting that their “gender” changes based on their personal inclination toward a behavioral normative stereotype. As for the other so-called genders, I can only assume that they just jumping on the band-wagon to promote their concepts of self expression.
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Steven,
Thank you for taking the time to comment and explaining your position so articulately. On this issue I guess we will just have to respectfully disagree. Although I try my best to listen to someone’s point of view without judgement and be empathetic to their experience … there are some things that just become ridiculous and I believe this is one of them. If someone’s personality is sensitive and they are a man or aggressive and they are a female … whatever. To each his own. This world is made up of all types of personalities and that’s what makes it interesting but there are certain things that are just simple facts of our existence on this planet and when someone tries to challenge those and distort them into something they’re not … it’s absurd. There are male and female genders that inhabit this earth. Trying to change our collective view of this is akin to saying that 2+2 now equals 5 … because I FEEL it should be that way. Really, that’s what we are talking about here: people’s feelings. They have nothing to do with gender … or at least it didn’t until recently when the definition of the word gender morphed so they could start pushing this narrative. For someone to say they are not a male or female just flies against nature. This is a human construct made by people who want to feel different and special. I guess you are just a more understanding person than I am and are more willing to tolerate other people’s alternate realities. In response to you saying that my argument is coming from a place of resentment … you are correct. I am of the mindset live and let live but when people start cramming this non-sense down my throat and the minority start dictating to the majority … it imposes on my way to live and … yes … I get resentful. Thank you for taking the time to comment! I appreciate you sharing your point of view even if we don’t see eye to eye.
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I remember the days when I was just allowed to have gay and lesbian friends. It wasn’t forced onto me. Now? It’s not authentic anymore
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Tracey,
Thank you for taking the time to read my blog and comment … and taking the time to read everybody else’s comments. As you can see … it gets some people worked up!
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Omg THANK YOU!!!
I’m sooooo tired of all these Gay Titles popping up everyday. I can’t even get the first Acronym of gay letters right. Plus now all the non-binary BS. I’m sorry but I’ve NEVER gonna refer to ONE human as ” they”. That makes zero sense!!!!. Its funny how there’s alllllll these strains of gay now yet still only ONE strain of heterosexuality.
I think Straight people now should have their own flag and a Straight Pride Day as well on the calendar
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Mickey,
Great observation about only one type of heterosexuality. I guess we’ve just become complacent being … dare I say … normal. I like the idea of starting our own parade but then the LBGTQRSTUV won’t feel special anymore …. and that’s really what it’s all about. Thanks for commenting and sharing your thoughts!
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Thank u!!! It’s soooo confusing nowadays with now people demanding society to refer to them as “they” even thought it’s one human. WTF?!!!!
Next people will be identifying with different species like
“Fairy Lady” or ” Dogman”
Smh.
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I couldn’t agree more. I’m not referring to any ONE person as “they” either. That goes against everything I learned in grammar school about pronouns! As much as I’d like to laugh off your comment about identifying as a different species … it’s just a matter of time before that shit starts. The craziness they’re pushing now will soon become mainstream and they’ll have to find a different way to stand out and that’s when it will start. Thanks for commenting!
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Wow… Absolutely wow! This is so freakin true… Every word of it! Our world is literally going into shit and this is just a live example of it. Reading your article calmed me down a bit… But sadly this shit ain’t getting over soon. But thanks a ton for sharing man… Cheers!
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Sukhish,
Thank you for taking the time to comment and I’m glad you liked the post!
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Wow…Absolutely wow! Someone can’t understand that some people don’t want to be associated with genders and instead say it’s an example of our world going to shit.
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Well said, Scott. I’ve had enough of pandering to this fictional horseshit that someone came up with when they were having a tough day. You can identify as male or female, gay or straight – I don’t care, I really, really don’t. But be very clear about it – there’s only one of you, dummy. You aren’t a ‘they’.
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I’m glad you agree! Hopefully they (pun intended 😉 will get over themselves soon and the world can get back to a semi-normal state where people aren’t so preoccupied with stupid shit. Thanks for taking the time to comment!
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The whole “non-binary” movement is symptomatic of excessive navel-gazing.
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Agreed. Thanks for taking the time to comment!
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Camille Paglia, call her a crack pot or a pragmatist, said it best and I’m paraphrasing, “Biology defines gender. It is not a social construct.” These are sad times when a simple hard scientific concept has been politicized by SJWs, their allies and “trans” people (those whom have appropriated the term from proper trans-individuals) for their own obfuscating agenda.
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I couldn’t agree more. Thank you for taking the time to comment and sharing your thoughts!
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Sir,your article is a complety non-sense bullshit,i have the right to identify myself as whatever i please. I identify myself as a bird,my pronouns are “zir/thiez’ ( yeah,i read it somewhere in the intenet´s alternative universe ) and i will prove you that when i throw myself from a window,i will fly away!!
If i die instead of flying,i will haunt all those m*f*ers who say we can be whatever we want :p!
LOL
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Ya, you are what you are, if you want to be a kangaroo, nothing you do will make that happen.
You will still be human. But if you can get people to refer to you as a kangaroo I guess you might feel better.
The writer before about “Straight Pride Day”, LOL, ya, never going to happen, the optics are too laughable.
Marching along with a sign saying “I’m straight” yelling out slogans
Soon LBGTQRSTUV will just be L-Alphabet
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I agree with OP’s opinion. I have an uncle who was born gay. He had girlfriends in college before but things never quite felt right to him and he found comfort in other men. So be it. Having said that he has told me that he believes that the LBGTQ community as a whole has become overly sensitized and that things like Pride parades have lost there purpose. He thinks that because the community has been shunned and forced into closets for aeon’s that now the general public owes them all something for the grief. They want to create their own little chunk of the world to call theirs and they want the rest of the world to acknowledge it on a seemingly daily basis. The evolving social and cultural differences is what is shaping the definition of gender that for the past 40yrs (my time on earth) has meant male or female. I think for the most part people are hardwired from birth to become attracted to a particular sex as if its preordained. I was born a man. I am heterosexual. I married a women. I am a man for example. I think the same applies to gays whether male or female. I think most of those people either knew early on in their lives that they were gay and attracted to the same sex or discovered it via trial and error later in life.
However I do wonder about the Trans community who seems to be the group who feels most singled out and discriminated upon even when some of the negative publicity is brought on by the need for political correctness and an ever-evolving use of vague definitions in order to define a person. I often wonder if most of these non-gay/lesbian people who identify with much of that rather large list OP posted are really suffering from some form of mental complex coupled with body dysmorphia. What their brain tells them as far as what they are male/penis or female/vagina is the parasympathetic response but the complex is when they’re conscious mind tells them to not feel male or female and in an effort to define oneself (which is of great importance) these alternative titles have been created and umbrellaed under the term Gender. This is what I find most challenging in fact I often wonder if these people suffer from dual personalities were there are both a man and women in their heads sharing the same body.
They’re will always been cross-dressers and girls that are butch but I don’t understand how genitals cannot be used to define what a man is and what a woman is when this is how the world has been since my first breath. I also hate how these people feel it’s their right to retaliate against society by forcing it bend to its whim by employing a whole range of tactics like cancel culture and using social media platforms as weapons. People can identify how ever they wish but its not right to force society to accept it. Just like you can’t force all children or adults for that matter to get along and be friends. People are going to do things and say things that you will not like, things you may feel offended by but we can’t boycott and cancel everything and some point grow thicker skin.
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Matt,
Thank you for taking the time to comment … and VERY WELL put! I couldn’t agree with you more about people needing to grow a thicker skin.
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It is just so unfortunate that gay people were dragged into the mess that is gender ideology. Especially because the ideology pushed by trans activists essentially denies the existence of our sexual orientation, by claiming that our attraction is based on our partners’ gender identity, as opposed to their physical sex.
Gay men like me are actually being labelled as bigots for refusing to include “masculine-aligned” or “masculine-presenting” females in our dating pool. Imagine being so deep in woke social justice theory that you end up condemning homosexuality.
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Yes, the “woke” group is a cult that unfortunately has waaaay too many members. It is absurd that these idiots label you as a bigot because you aren’t attracted to the “masculine-aligned” or “masculine-presenting” (as you’ve stated … sorry … these are new terms for a boring straight white guy like myself). You are attracted to what you are attracted to … and nobody else gets a say in it … nor do they get to tell you that you’re wrong. A “masculine-aligned” person I’m guessing, is a woman with female parts but wants to be recognized as a man. If the meeting or relationship progresses to the point of being intimate and your expecting to see some male parts when the clothes come off and see lady parts … I’m sure it is going to be an issue …. just like if a straight guy is making the moves on an attractive woman and when it gets time to be intimate and the clothes come off and there’s a dick where you’re not expecting it … that could put a damper on the situation. Sorry your “group” got swept up in all this bullshit … but in all honesty … nobody is immune to it. If you are not a “follower” and believe whatever new stupid bullshit they are peddling, then you are a problem … even if you’re gay. They can’t control you’re thinking … and that’s what the real problem is!
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So I was trying to research the counter argument to non-binary as there isnt much of it out there. Finally came across your post after digging through total nonsense in support of non-binary. Seems I am now deemed “conservative” for having this thought hahah. Who would have thought?! This is right up there with the Vaccine mandate trying to force me to get something injected into me that I don’t even necessarily need to be alive! Mandate all those 55 and over who are more than 3/4 of the ones dying!
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James,
You haven’t been able to find much in regards to a counter-argument because things like that are taken down by the social media companies that are in on this social engineering campaign. (I hate the fact that I sound more and more like a conspiracy theorist with everyday that passes … but it’s really hard not to.) Well, I’m glad you found my blog! I’m happy to be the counter-point to all this non-sense that’s being pushed on us. Another reason you can’t find any counter-argument to this stupid non-binary bullshit is because the “counter-argument” is based in science and we all know that the “woke” group doesn’t follow science … which is evident by the vaccine mandate that you mentioned … but I digress. Thank you for taking the time to read my post and leave a comment!
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I think a little compassion goes a long way. I feel supportive of people that pay their own way in life, regardless of their inner mental landscape. However, if you are not contributing, and you are not severly disabled, you don’t mean anything to me at all – parasites must be shunned until they are reformed. And THIS is the crux of the issue: Weak-willed individuals are being propagandized into non-functional versions of themselves in ever growing numbers to somehow show that a merit-based environment is inappropriate for society, based on the individual “failure rate”. What is the solution? End Capitalism and individual rights in favor of a State-Run world full of malcontents who have to be “looked after” due to their navel-gazing indigence.
This explains why Intersex is a Marxist agenda. It allows a chink in the armor of freedom of speech to be exploited in the name of compassion; you SHALL say and think certain things, and you SHALL NOT say and think certain other things, because the STATE decrees it on behalf of the hypersensitives to prevent “harm”. Once this pattern is established in this private area, the precedent set, where else will it be applied? The self-ownership of the individual and the very concept of personal property, because of poverty, that’s where. Nevermind the fact that if you are consistently productive and make good decisions it is impossible to be poor. Why isn’t that gem included in the declarations of our future Leftist masters? Oh yeah, because the Far Left feeds on failure and converts it into political capital.
On pain of civil court monetary damages and criminal prosecution, all of you shall unfailingly refer to me verbally and in writing henceforth as my freshly minted new identity of *freecock*. That is all.
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Obviously Blank,
Thank you for reading my post and taking the time to comment. You’ve put a lot of thought into what you wrote and I agree that “The Left” prays on the weak minded and apparently our society has created many more weak minded people than I’d like to admit. It’s scary just how many people have become lemmings and have fallen victim to woke-ism and all the bullshit that ideology embraces rather than embracing the ideas of rugged individualism that this country was founded on. A large portion of our society has become soft and lazy. I was impressed with the articulate points that you were making but then you lost me with the last part about your newly minted *freecock* identity. Maybe there’s some hidden message there that I’m not in the loop on … I’m not sure. I’m also a little worried that you go by “Obviously Blank” which makes me think I might have just unknowingly endorsed some manifesto that’s going to come back and bite me in the ass later… but I’m going to hope that you go by that name solely for the reason that you hold views that would get you cancelled in today’s ridiculous politically correct society if your real name was attached to it. Thank you …um …*freecock* … for taking the time to share your thoughts! (I’ve got enough problems, I don’t need any criminal prosecutions in my future!)
Scott
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Hi,
I was searching fan art from a game and idk how but google gave me this. I read the whole segment and honestly even though this was so long ago I felt like throwing in my 2 cents lol. I get that the majority of men and women have their assigned sex organs, but I also think it’s fine to identify as something other than your biological sex. This could be because I have a relative who I knew was transgender before he came out to the family, almost 7 years before, but yeah. I knew as a child and had no issue with understanding because he gave such a fantastic example for me to get. ‘Imagine God (/ parents or whatever creator you wish) is putting boys brains in boys bodies, and girls in girls. With me, I think they put a boy’s brain in a girl’s body.’ The point I’m making is who cares, do you and as long as you’re not trying to hurt people, who cares. Do what makes you happy and dysphoria is a real thing. Gender dysphoria happens and it’s a real, traumatic struggle for some and I totally get that. I think it’s worth being more caring to those who you do not understand, especially when all they may want is to be accepted.
Usually, transgender people do not identify as transgender, but a binary. They just want the pronouns they associate with their identity and whilst it can be difficult for some to adapt to change, it isn’t a massive thing for you to do, yet it makes a huge difference to the person who identifies that way. You could go to a pride parade to try and empathise better with other peoples’ lives and be happy they want acceptance, not war. There have been gender non-conforming people in history, even though there was no education about this at the time, showing how natural it truly is, and finding your identity does require some experimentation. Maybe you tries a new hobby or diet, or clothing. If you know someone who changes how they identify, that doesn’t mean they want attention. They usually actually don’t want a massive argument. They just want to feel respected and accepted by those they love. You may find that respecting someone’s wishes can actually let them know that is they change their mind back someday, they do not need to feel ashamed.
This is a rant but yeah. It struck a chord with me because I know people who have had reassignment surgery or different pronouns. Sure, a lot of people go through phases because they don’t identify with their card board cutout and stereotypical identity, which can also cause some confusion. It’s best to accept and if they did it for attention, you win because you didnt argue and give them attention, and if they didn’t do it for attention, you both win because they feel cared about and you get to show you care. I likely won’t be back here because I didn’t want to sign up to get every comment on the post because a lot of it is VERY toxic lol. It’s worth stating here that Transgender suicide rates are VERY high, often due to lack of acceptance, despite the community’s resilience in persuing what they know is right even when society and loves ones do not support it, so please be kind to your loved ones. [doi: 10.4103/0253-7176.194908]
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